Yo!
Ok, photos NEXT time....just going to chat a bit while wjr plays with his new Playstayshun 3 ;-).
Iain's in 1st grade, and Ria is starting 2 separate preschools (2.5-3 hours each day). Iain is LOVING 1st grade (they get their OWN DESKS!!!!). Almost no problems so far. We noticed over vacation that Iain does best on days where there is a LOT of physical activity, as though a lack of such causes him to spiral down into the place where he lacks any flexibility or ability to accept that other viewpoints exist. In 1st grade (due to a decision by the district to lengthen the school day for grades 1-3 to allow one bus route) he has ***3*** recesses a day (one at the end of the day). I think the recesses are partly to thank for the problem-free 1st 2 weeks of school (the other part is probably a mix between 1 year older and all the stuff we were doing over the summer). WHEEE!
Ria has been to only 1 of her 2 preschools so far (the one I don't work at....the co-op starts on Tuesday), and she LOVES school and is very proud that she has her own place to go everyday.
Physically, Ria is doing well. Not yet out of the woods, but great improvements all around. Her speech is improving A LOT. She believes in the whole concept of questions and answers maybe 60% of the time, and her enunciation is improving. She frequently goes on binges of refusing to use words for an hour or 2 at a time, but I'm at least imagining that they are reducing in length. Her gross motor skill are improving greatly too....she moves more gracefully, as though she lives "in" her body, rather than at odds with it. She truly seems more comfortable in space and gravity. The severe pronation she developed in her gait wasn't improving with increased foot strength, and she quickly deformed the mere $60 off the shelf orthotics we got her, so she's now in custom made "all foot orthotics" (AFO's) to fix that. She honestly seems to like the way they feel on her feet (YAY!), so we only had to fight about them for the 1st day or 2. Her "core strength" is improving, but still pretty bad, so me and her PT (physical therapist) are going to focus a bit more on that, specifically lower back strength. As for new issues, in October we've got an optometrist appointment as she seems to go cross-eyed when focusing on things in the near field (like books). She seems to be still seeing double (at least a month ago she was pointing about 3/4 inch to the right of what she was trying to point at), so it is unlikely that she is blocking the input from one eye (this is what William does as he has strabismus, i.e., no 3-D vision), at least yet. Her eyes LOOK straight when she looks at mid-field or distant objects, so most likely we'll get this all fixed with just a set of glasses. Finally, in addition to the developmental leaps she's making in the areas we're focusing on, she is (unfortunately) also catching up on some of the more annoying developmental steps that she missed between 18 months and 2.5 years. The whining feature has been turned back on, and the "NO!" explosions are back. Blech!!!
Its funny, in late January when we started our trip to the Aspergers diagnosis, we felt like Iain's issues were going to be so much more overwhelming to deal with (in the current approach people take to it, with therapist appts, etc.) than anything Ria could dish out, but Ria has just blown him away with her more straightforward physical problems. Iain is doing GREAT, and Ria's list of difficulties just seems to get longer and longer. All of it, though, is movement towards the positive. They're BOTH going to get glasses eventually, so getting them at age 3 is just moving the curve up a bit. Speech therapy should be over by December, and the orthotics will hopefully just be a year or 2. Her issues will all have melted away before she hits Kindergarten, whereas Iain's only showed up then.
All in all, we are SOOOOOO much more calm about life than we were 3 months ago. Iain's social skills therapy and Occupational therapy have obviously been helping him, as he is just so much more capable of dealing with unexpected situations. ...and we think we know all of Ria's problems at this point, and progress is being made on all fronts (except the cross-eyed thing, and that's just a month away). We're even starting to make dents in the insurance and paper piles!
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and, Iain turns **6** on Tuesday!!! Whee! We've got a small party planned, and will be exploding 2-liter bottles of diet coke with Mentos (and will be trying Altoids too). This should be way more fun than the non-celebration of OUR birthdays back when we were WAY too overwhelmed this spring!
That's the update.....we'll post a few pictues from our trip to RI/NH/Toronto and our camping trip to Big Basin.....uh....soonish ;-) Just don't hold your breath!
Take care,
Mona and William