21 September 2020

Winding summer down, 2020 continues to fulfill its goal of making us insane

Originally titled this one with the word Autumn, but that's next week (well, today as I finish this!).  I always think of the first day of school as the first day of Autumn, but they're actually 5 weeks apart, at least this year, and at least in California.  

First, picture proof that my kids are cute and their hair is getting long.  Iain went through the "awkward growing out hair" stage in late winter / early spring, and now it is thick and quite lovely.  Ria is growing her bangs out, also thick and lovely.  Me, I got my first proper haircut in over 6 months last week!  William is doing hockey play-off rules, it might get cut when he gets a Covid vaccine, i.e., when the vaccine play-offs are over.


Ria's eyes were very much unpleased with distance learning due to excessive screen time and losing their outdoor time (no biking to and from school, no outdoor class passing, etc.)  Her eye cross went from barely noticeable at her check-up last year to so extreme they'd suggest considering surgery if they didn't know how good it was last year.  Prescription is strongly up too.  So, we've got her computer glasses now, an external monitor that is big and a bit more distant, and she's actively working with the school district's vision therapist again.  Here she is with her new glasses and new school day setup.  (Freya is helping, as you can see.)


Fire season started early, and came on not like a lion, but like a herd of thundering wildebeest being chased by murder hornets and tornadoes, where the tornadoes are filled with lions.  The dry lightning storms occurred the Sunday night before the first day of school, 16 Aug, and by Wednesday the smoke started coming in.  For 3 weeks we had variable smoke levels from the nearby CZU Lightning Complex fire, and the slightly farther but still close SCU Lightning Complex fire.


Then, just for fun, the dishwasher leaked.  At 1 AM or so.  Came out Saturday morning at 8 AM to a puddle on the family room floor.  This picture is after I dried it all up.  Doesn't look that exciting, really, there's just those little wet marks at the ends of the boards on the floor.


Turns out it was plenty exciting.  7 hours of puddling on the floor allowed it to buckle the floor and leave evil dampness on the subfloor.  So a section of floor was ripped out, and some perniciously LOUD fans and dehumidifiers became part of our life.  They were supposed to stay for 4 days, but only some were removed at 5 days, the rest stayed for 10 days.  10 very long days of exquisite noise.

So, the fans were originally supposed to be removed on Iain's 17th birthday, a little present, but they weren't.  Meanwhile in the outside world the wind kicked in and some fires a bit out of the area went out of control.  The day after Iain's birthday we all woke up to apocalyptic orange skies (and most fans were removed that day).  It was an odd feeling birthday for him and for us; the air was suddenly unsafe to breathe, for nearly a week.  It felt like the world just didn't want us to ever leave our house, and meanwhile inside the house it was loud and chaotic.  Sanity level was not good.


Ah, but you say, at least the chaos inside the house was trending downwards.... Unfortunately, that was not true.  The subfloor under the tile wasn't drying, and its wetness extended further than the original tech had even measured.... So, after the skies cleared a bit, and the air got better, we got to have the tile chiseled out last Friday and got another weekend of dehumidifier time  (that's the 3rd loud weekend in a row, for those who might want to count).  Well, chiseled is probably the wrong word, since we're guessing it was the previous owner who put in the tile, as a professional probably wouldn't have covered the floor with chicken wire and put down concrete to set the tile into, and the concrete wouldn't chisel cleanly, so the circular saw had to come out, and there was much dust, along with the noise.  Joy, thine name is 2020....NOT!


In this case, though, we lucked out a bit.  It was looking like it would require 10 tiles to fix/replace the removed ones, and we only have 7 spare in the garage.  However, because of the chicken wire the moisture meter was overstating the problem and only 6 tiles will be needed to fix the kitchen floor...YAY!  Today the last dehumidifier left, and we are officially done with the "water abatement" stage of recovery.  (We already have the new dishwasher in!!)  Air is a bit bad again, but not dangerous... in the yellow.

At the same time, Iain is a SENIOR, so college applications are to be started.  Oh, but what about SAT's and ACT's you ask?  The tests scheduled for March 13 were cancelled the day before they were to occur.  April, cancelled, May?  nope.  June?  Nope.  I rescheduled the August tests we got into to Nov/Dec. (We're scheduling for both the ACT and SAT, figuring that at most we will manage one of the two.)  If we get to January unable to test, we're going to stop trying.  Everyone will understand.  Not actually stressed about it, but jumping through the hoops of trying to get them scheduled so we can say we tried our best.  Iain managed to pick schools to apply to, and we're starting the process.  All the "conveniences" of the computer age make it more complicated and cumbersome than William and I had to deal with.  Ugh, what a pain!!  The 3 of us are working together to get the grunt work done, then Iain has the important "I'm awesome" essays to write on his own.  Fortunately Canadian schools don't care about recommendation letters for undergraduate applications, so the bit where he didn't request them in the spring doesn't matter!  Hah!  Take THAT you silly over-cumbersome American college application process!

And, meanwhile, there's still a pandemic!!!!  And, since California's numbers aren't the best, the kids are 100% distance learning.  School is much better structured than it was in the spring, though, so both kids are doing OK.  We're pleased with the way our county (and state) are dealing with the situation with well defined benchmarks that have to be met before X can occur, and a basically very conservative (safety-wise) approach to reopening plans.  As one county said, though, they can put together all the best plans in the world, but if people won't stop having parties without masks and without social distancing there is nothing the county can do to fix the numbers.  We have recently in Santa Clara gone down to the "red" category from the "purple" category, so soon the county and schools can consider whether to start a limited amount of in-person schooling.  We're unlikely to see anything happen with our kids in a school until probably November, though, and even then it would certainly be only 2 days a week in limited number cohorts.  The state's new system is here:  https://covid19.ca.gov/safer-economy/



I haven't checked against anywhere in England or New Hampshire or Rhode Island yet, but in California's system Toronto is down in the middle of the orange tier.  It's nice to be able to compare and understand.   (Post-edit.... Toronto actually is going up noticeably, more like 3.6 new cases daily/100k, so they're at the top of the orange, in danger of hitting red.)

Well, I'm caught up to "live", so this is pretty much it for the recent flurry of posts.  Between the wildfires, the air quality, mild flooding in the house, and the pandemic, it is just a weird, exhausting, crazy, overwhelming time in our house.  We're chugging along, though.  AND the elliptical is finally on its way -- should arrive in San Jose this week!  There's some good news!

18 September 2020

More Spring, and How I Spent My Summer "Vacation"

So, after April, 6 weeks into our confinement, things started getting really old.  School was the opposite of ideal, there was anxiety, there were panic attacks, there was great relief about having school be pass/fail, there was no 1:1 classroom aide except me.... so the cats decided to up the ante and start peeing on things.  One cat did, that is.  So we had to get the stair landing re-carpeted (it had just gotten new carpet LAST spring!) (it took a while to get the carpet in, as due to covid restrictions they weren't allowed in our house), we had to give up on having a back door rug, or a family room rug.  Iain's bedroom door is now permanently closed (until we have the bandwidth to replace his carpet, at least), and so is ours (carpet got removed LAST spring after pee incidents, now we just need something to block the outside view - from the outside so they can't move it like they move curtains).  It took several months and multiple drug trials, but the cat is now on anti-anxiety meds and hasn't had a pee episode in months.  For a while, though, on gabapentin, she was the most drugged out stoner known to mankind.  Here she is about to spill off the table in her stoner state:


The proper anti-anxiety meds don't make her floppy like that.

There were people, kanelbullar, and sleepy cats.





Iain had some gnarly warts removed from his foot and it's taken a bit over 2 months for his foot to return to normal (I'll spare your the horror of pictures of that!).  Ria had her wisdom teeth out.  I got some fancy creams to make my fingernail finally go back to normal (will also spare you the photos on that!).  We reorganized a bunch of stuff in the house to (a) give Iain a bit more space at his desk, and (b) make space for the elliptical we bought so we can exercise in the house when we can't go out.  Ordered that in late July.  It's still not here (all those darn people with the same plan as us!).  Would have been nice to have that during this early and excessive wildfire season while we've felt even MORE trapped at home.  William got some cute t-shirts for his birthday AND a new bread machine (when the old one literally LEAPED off the counter).  And, it took 3 days of cursing cloudy skies, but we got pictures of Comet Neowise.






I think that covers the summer..... Oh, you need some more cat pictures, clearly.  Both Oreo, but both cute.

Coming up next post, fires (outside), floods (inside), and non-consentual home remodelling (re: flood).

11 September 2020

April in Quarantine Land....

We've mostly sat around for 6 months, that's how we spent the spring & summer!  But that doesn't mean that there are no pictures to share since I last shared on 1 April...

Iain and I played with the camera again for a bit a few nights:





It was cool to figure out how to take functional moon shots with Dad's camera.  Nice lens, Dad certainly didn't skimp on quality!

The kids did distance school (Iain's pic is with the fancy camera, Ria's with the cell phone.  Hence the clear quality difference!



William and I, meanwhile, got excited about toilet paper (sorry, no picture commemorating finding that..... I have a picture but I'm too vain to post it!), yeast (a POUND of yeast, donated to our bready needs by my lovely sister!), bread, hot cross buns, and flopping on the couch far too much.




Hmm, that's just through April.  I'd better change the title of the post!  (It was going to be "How I spent my summer "vacation", but I haven't even finished spring yet.)

10 September 2020

"Celebrating" 6 Months of "The New Normal"

Oh dear heavens, please don't make this actually "the new normal".... not that the world should really go back to the old normal.  Maybe we can make it the start of a better normal?

6 months ago on 11 March, William started working from home full time.

6 months ago next week, on 17 March, the SF Bay Area went into "shelter in place" orders, and school became 100% distance learning.

Wow, none of us would have dreamed that 6 months on we're still at home, and still in 100% distance learning (I know other places are having in-person school, but California is being careful -- which we like, and has too-high numbers, which we don't like), and still not knowing when this pandemic will end.

And, in the US we've gotten to add protests, riot police turning peaceful protests into chaos, jackboot government thugs literally dragging people off the street into unmarked vans, police responding to police brutality and murder of civilians with more brutality and more murdering of civilians.  (OK, lots of police departments are trying to work with their communities to figure out how to fix the police component of the inherent racist basis of US society, but it should be 100% of police departments, and it isn't anywhere near that.), and we have a president who is literally trying to hogtie the election process, reveling in acts expected only of fascist dictators.  There's an entire faction of Republicans who are campaigning for the Democratic nominee!!!

And, in California climate change is as far from a theoretical exercise as possible, as the state burns....again.  This year Oregon is joining in the fun.  Yes, wildfires are to be expected in this type of ecosystem, but in 30 years of living in California, only in the last 3 has the area we live in been overwhelmed with wildfire smoke multiple times a year.  In the previous 27 years there was only once I remember, from the fire in the Oakland hills. Now it's 2- 3 times a year. The current fires started 3.5 weeks ago, the first day of school.  2 days later smoke took over, and we have spent 3 weeks needing to check air quality before we consider going out for a walk, or eating a meal outdoors, or.....  And then we got the cool apocalyptic orange skies yesterday.  That was fun.  A quote from a news article online:  "The August Complex’s record means that all five of California’s largest wildfires have burned in the last three years. Six of the top 20 largest wildfires occurred this year."  Yep, climate change is real and personally impacts my life.

This is apparently a rant post, not the "lots of pictures post" that I was planning.  I guess I'll post this and move to the more pleasant post for y'all. ;-).

01 April 2020

Confirmed, distance learning for the whole school year.

Yep.

We got it confirmed, school buildings won't reopen this school year.  That will be 12 weeks of the school year (well, 11 + 1 week break) that will occur at home.  Sanity is optional!!!

Life in 'Interesting Times"

Dang, I can't believe that it was just 23 Feb when I did that last blog post.  1 week later, Mom was here visiting (awesome timing!).  2.5 weeks later William had already transitioned to working from home full time.  3 weeks after the last blog post was the last day of physical school.  ~3.5 weeks after the last post we got our "shelter in place" order locally (which seems to be working, California's curve is much better than most states).

So, at this point W has been working from home for 3 full weeks, and the kids haven't been physically to school for 2.5 weeks.  2 weeks of shelter in place so far (feels like a month!).  4.5 weeks minimum of additional "distance learning" and "shelter in place" to go.  Current planned date to start up life again is Monday 4 May, although there's rumors that today we'll hear that schools won't reopen physically this school year (end of school year for us is June 5).

More on that later, first pics from Mom's (Birgitta's) visit!

Mom and I went to SF on the Sunday and had a lovely time tooling around, and goofing off.





We hung out with Rachel one day and got projects done:



Then, as we know, the crazies kicked in.  First William got the order to work from home.



Early the next week, Iain had his first professional driving lesson, a requirement to activate his learners permit.  The permit isn't valid until the permit is signed off by the professional trainer.

While they were out driving, the order came to start "shelter in place" restrictions starting at midnight that night.  He got that driving lesson in just in time!

I'm not terribly sure how I got those words on the left of the photo, but I'll accept it ;-).  I think  it will magically go full width next paragraph.

So, then we started living at home and having video life.  Zoom meeting social skills class, Discord + Roll 20 for Ria's D&D, Zoom guitar, and Zoom karate:



And, distance school/work/etc.


Iain and I did have a nice few minutes one afternoon taking some photos in the backyard, you can see a few errant sprinkles in the photo of Iain.  He has one of me, but its locked on his camera ;-).



Having this all happen right in the middle of the already stressful spring of Junior year (SAT's, ACT's, choosing universities to apply to, contemplating recommendation letters) has been an unpleasant load for Iain, so he's more than a bit stressed.  I'm also having to adjust my brain a lot to this never being alone thing, and continually ensuring that Ria's day stays structured enough.  Luckily she responds awesomely to a checklist!  We set up her daily school checklist at the start of the day, and that makes her confident enough to have a positive mood.  She's finishing up her school work by 1 or so every day, though, and by late afternoon the lack of imposed structure starts to make her uncertain and upset.  We need to work on our afternoons - I might have to force her to move our daily PE lesson (physical education == a walk) to the late afternoon to structure up the later part of the day.

So, that's what we're up to!  Looking forward to life getting uninteresting again....

24 February 2020

New camera, et. al.

Hello ;-)
Some catch-up, and some new.... in any case, pictures to tickle the heart of Grandmothers and Mormors everywhere.  Well, one Grandmother and one Mormor, at least.

First, a comic to celebrate the return of gluten into our lives!!!  WOOT!  Mind you, there are more than a few recipes that I have maintained as GF because they are just so good that why would one mess with them?  And, I'm now used to FLAVORFUL flours, so all those white flour recipes bore me (except for the special ones - skorpor, I'm talking to you!), so I can't just make old G-full recipes as is, I have to add some millet, some almond meal, some....  ;-).  My flour stash has not reduced, it's grown.


Thought I'd put here the nice photos that I stuck up on Facebook from the Memorial Dinner we had for Dad out in Chicago in November.  A small gathering, but it was all the people that Dad cared about.  Lovely folks.



Happy Christmas!


And the new year is upon us!  Showcase is heavily on Iain.

Here Iain is at the Freestyle Academy exhibition just the other Friday night at the Computer History Museum.  He is in the animation program, and this was the animation zone.  Here's the link to his class web site:
http://freestyleacademy.rocks/~IainR/

If you click on the "Narritive 1" link you'll see his stuff from the exhibition.  The "Conceptual" link is from the Oct 31 open house.  Finally, there's a bunch of "photo blogs" you can peruse.


Some other photos, Iain at "Rice Ball Day" at Japanese class - his teacher took such a lovely photo of us, Iain looks so happy.  Although his anticipatory joy of that burrito (celebrating the passing of the written drivers license test -- we have a Learners Permit, people!!) does seem to exceed his rice ball happiness.

Finally, I have taken ownership of Dad's DSLR camera, and am starting to play with it.  here's some pretty photos of my people:





And, a mild treatise on my children's hands....